BIG Feelings IRULE Check-In Notepad
A 50-page guided notepad for working through big feelings one step at a time.
The BIG Feelings IRULE Check-In Notepad is designed to help kids, teens, and adults slow down, name what they’re feeling, notice body signals, understand what may have triggered the feeling, make space for the emotion, and choose a coping tool that helps.
IRULE stands for:
I: Identify the feelingR: Recognize where it shows up in the bodyU: Understand what may have triggered itL: Let yourself feel it without judgmentE: Employ a coping tool or next step
This notepad can be used at home, in therapy, in school counseling spaces, in calm corners, or as a reflection tool after a difficult moment. 50 pages means 50 chances to pause, check in, and choose what helps.
This notepad can help with:
emotional check-ins
therapy homework
counseling sessions
parent-child conversations
teen self-reflection
stress, overwhelm, anxiety, anger, sadness, or uncertainty
practicing the pause before choosing a response
Great for:
teens and young adults
older kids with support
parents
therapists
school counselors
educators
calm corners
transition times
Big feelings can feel messy. This notepad gives you a place to figure them out.

